Helping.
How can we define this concept? Helping, according to dictionary.com, is to
give or provide what is necessary to accomplish a taskor satisfy a need;
contribute strength or means to; render
assistance to;cooperate effectively with; aid; assist. This concept is what
everyone should aim to. Yet to what extend should we help? In what scenarios should
we help? Is it right to help no matter the cause? These are all questions that
from a young age we are taught in much disguised matters and scenarios. As
Puerto Ricans we are taught to help others, which is good, but to what extent
or cost? When it comes to the phrase “hazme un favorsito" we are open to
the idea of doing the favor, having in mind a future situation where we are the
ones that need a favor. For example,
when we first take an exam the teacher gives out the instructions which would
consist of "stay focus on your paper", "don't let anyone see
your paper", etc. etc. And we do it as told by the teacher. As the years
pass the habit becomes more flexible. Our eyes start turning to other papers,
later we start talking, and we exchange answers and even rely on others to get
a good grade in the test. Our excuse is the concept of helping. "Oh
teacher, I was helping him." Is this a problem or is it actually
"helping"?
In the chapter "Helping" in Down on
the island, Jim Cooper explains the different situation he had when he was
teaching English in PR. He describe how copying was encouraged by the public
education system and the society. Yet he was not able to understand why this
was until he learns about the culture and the traditions of the people in PR.
With the US
invasion the presence of capitalism was little by little taking its place in
PR. It took some time, time that I believe is still present and going, for the
Puerto Ricans to get used or to put in practice the capitalist principles. As part of a capitalist society we are
encourage to be competitive. We seek or best interest and not necessarily what
benefits the whole. We maximize our gains and we strive to be the best in
everything. So what could be best, helping or being self-centered and
selfish? The answer is depending on the
situation. Not necessarily just because in a situation one is not helpful means
one is being selfish.
